手控え てびかえ note #23,600 Also a form of 手控える てびかえる stem to hang (hold) back Meanings noun note; memorandum holding oneself back Its kanji 手 シュ、ズ · て、て-、-て、た- hand 控 コウ · ひか.える、ひか.え withdraw, draw in, hold back, refrain from, be moderate